Communication For Introverts

By Isioma Okenimkpe

Communication for me is as easy as putting ice in water! Yes, no matter what the situation or place, I am able to converse easily and have meaningful dialogue. But then, when I am around unfamiliar faces, I get tongue-tied and I start to think that communication is an inner gift that people are blessed with, little did I know that this was part of my trait as an introvert.
As an entrepreneur, I saw this as my weakness because I felt that I wouldn’t be able to communicate effectively what I needed to in front of my customers. At this point, I knew I needed to find a way to improve on my communication skill and with the help of my colleague, I carried out research on communication and communication for Introverts. So far, my findings have been my guide to effective communication with people. Below are my tricks and tips. 

• Understanding what works for you, whether talking, writing or doing both as this will help you keep your train of thoughts on one track and at the same time help you manage interruption from your audience. 
• You do not need to force yourself to speak more than you need to because it is totally unnecessary and exhaustive, however, it is important to join the conversation when you do have something of value to say. 
• Don’t overthink it. Sometimes the dumbest ideas are actually the best (Pinky and The Brain). So, never be afraid of the backlash that comes from you sharing your ideas. Believe that your voice has value and know that from sharing your ideas, you get to learn something new.
• Prepare ahead of any meeting or any conversation. You can make a mental list of things you want to say, or actually jot down those notes and then share them during the meeting. There is no crime in reading out what you have written down.
• Be an active listener and show that you are engaged in a conversation by nodding, being expressive, taking notes, and being interested in the conversation.
• Finally, face the discomfort ahead. It’s absolutely vital to deal with communication fears head on. Sometimes, that includes mustering enough courage to take the first step.

Photo Credit: VeryWell / Josh Seong